I was blessed to spend a lot of time with a young model in the past few weeks. While it may be nice to beautiful, it is also perhaps the most extreme hardship one can imagine. Of course every man wants 'her' so she becomes confused and does not ever know a true reality. When every man wants 'you', how can you possibly form real relationships? How can you possibly see what is real and what is illusion? You can't.
Let's call my model friend 'Samantha'. Wherever Samantha and I went that weekend, men followed her with their eyes and women grew jealous. I often heard this comment from women: 'You're making the rest of us look bad.' Simply, Samantha's looks trumped the rest of the ladies' appearances. Men approached Samantha and threw hundred dollar bills at her and she took them. Men did this a lot---they saw beauty, wanted it, but could not have it. They knew what they wanted. When I left to go to the bathroom at a restaurant, men approached Samantha and she could not stave off the wave.
I heard comments from men all weekend such as: "You're the man," "How did you score that?", "Wow." It was if I had won the lottery and made a deposit of 10 million. Samantha taught me a lesson--our society is based on image and appearance alone. When I am out with a woman who is average at best, no man every tells me that 'I am the man.' I am ignored. Looks are everything and more powerful than any winning ticket in 2009. Don't let anyone tell you differently. If they do, just ignore them unless of course they are beautiful.
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